Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Mom's Surprise Meeting

Since mom's passing, there has been much time spent going through photos and in turn, many memories. This memory has again become vivid.

Five years ago, on March 17 to be exact, a little 10 month old came into our lives. We named him Elisha Daniel.

This was the same year, in February to be exact, that my parents and my sister and her family moved from "home" to Tennessee, which I know now they consider home.

This precious little boy had very special needs and we were so grateful to have the chance to raise him as our own and see what miracle God could do in his life, for we had already experienced God's amazing power in our precious daughter's life.

But, God had his own agenda. Due to the laws in Florida, because Elisha was over six months old, his birth mother had the option before three days was up, to ask for his return. We received that call at the 3 day mark. Up to this point in our lives, this was the hardest thing we had ever had to do. My beautiful husband did this alone, as I could not handle this seemingly inhumane act. And he did it with such grace, not leaving that meeting without sharing Jesus with his birth mother. His words were, "I know Someone who has done what you have done; giving up your son. He knows the hurt, but more than that, He gave up His son to die for you and me." These were words that I struggled to hear him say...for I was so hurt at what had just taken place.

Not thinking much more could go wrong, we received a telephone call from a detective the following week. "Elisha Daniel" had died....and there was an investigation.

We have never heard what transpired. But I know one thing. He has a home in heaven now.

Many thoughts transpired in my mind during that tremendous trial.
"If Elisha had grown up in that home, there might have never been a conversion and thus he would have most likely lived a very difficult life."
"I would then, never see him again."

But I know now, I will! What is even more amazing and comforting, is that Mom was never able to meet this precious boy. And as I have been talking with children and helping them deal with the loss of their Gran, I suddenly realized that she has met him, just not when and where I would have chosen. God deemed best that Heaven would be that perfect surprise meeting place.

Comfort alone has come from my Father in Heaven.

7 comments:

Coco, not as in Chanel :) said...

wjd4uYou and your husband have wonderful souls. God Bless you both!

Dorothy said...

What a beautiful testimony Mrs. Cartwright. Truly we don't understand the whys and hows sometimes but God does and in that knowledge we take our hope don't we. Thank you for sharing another beautiful part of your lives with us.
Bless you all,
Dorothy in Arizona

Stacey said...

I'm just catching up on your blog. What absolutely beautiful, meaningful posts... testimonies, really, you have been writing. You are clearly a beautiful daughter of the King. And I am sure you are receiving your comfort from Him. Stay strong in your faith. We continue to keep you and yours in our prayers. We pray God's blessings on you all.
Stacey <><

Clay in His Hands said...

What a precious word, my little sister. Thank you for reminding me of the faithfulness of God and the blessing on those who serve Him selflessly. I love you.

Ann Voskamp @Holy Experience said...

I just needed to whisper to your tender heart today...

I am praying tonight for beautiful, beautiful you...

Jesus cups close.

All's grace,
Ann

Jo said...

I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in Him will I trust. Surely He shall deliver thee... He shall cover thee with His feathers, and under His wings shalt thou trust....

(Psalms 91:2-4)

PS You have a lovely blog and I will enjoy reading it often.
Jo

Jenni / Jennifer Saake a.k.a. InfertilityMom said...

I hate that you had to endure the anguish of "loosing" both your Mom and Elisha. What do people do without the hope of Heaven? Praising God that while we are without those we love for a season we label "death" that in Him is Life eternal and one day there will be no more tears!